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Love Talk?

*Mood: Bored*

*Mood: Bored*

Konnichiwa minna-san!

Genki desu ka?

Today, MK has been working hard on her studies.

Since I was sick last week, which was a week of tests at my school, I have to prepare myself to take all of the tests when I get back to school (next week). That means I have a lot of studying to do. I have a test for almost every subject, that’s a total of about 12 tests. So in about 5 days, I have to study for 12 tests!

Yikes, MK’s freaking herself out by saying that! Hopefully it’s not really as much work as it sounds like when I say, “12 tests to study for in 5 days” *shivers*.

Anyway, so when Ms. Aya from PaperDiaries blogged about “Auditioning for Love” a few days ago, MK could relate to her post somewhat.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not big on blogging about all of my deep personal feelings and experiences concerning love or crushes or whatever (neither is Ms. Aya), but since she suggested that I blog about why I can relate to her post, I will [quickly] do just that.

This might turn out to be interesting…

MK’s Personal Experience with “Auditioning for Love”


As minna-san should know by now, months ago, MK and her family moved to this wonderful place. Here in this wonderful place, I’ve met a lot of really nice people. One person who stands out very peculiarly to MK is this guy at my church who I’ll call Lucas. MK can remember the first tim

e she saw Lucas. He was walking past her and smiling. The thing is, that was the first time that I was at his church, so I guess that was his way of welcoming me. But I think it stood out to me because he was smiling very honestly though he seemed really shy. I remember until today (months later) exactly how he was smiling at me. At the time I found him peculiar (in a very good way) and wanted to get to know him.

Up until now I have never had a real conversation with Lucas, but I has been observing him and have seen that he really is a very peculiar guy. This has only made me want to get to know him even more. But although I still want to get to know him, I’ve still never really talked to him.

MK’s quite frustrated by this and feels sort of like she has to audition for Lucas‘ attention when she’s around him. I don’t like feeling like that at all and really hope we’ll become friends sooner or later.


*Sigh* So that’s why MK said she could relate to Ms.Aya‘s post.

But it’s time for me to go now.

I feel really good for writing such a long post for minna-san. Hopefully I didn’t bore minna-san too much.

Back to studying now!


How to: Tips for being a good boyfriend!

Konbanwa, minna-san! MK is feeling a little better now, for whatever reason. I’m still feeling kinda gloomy, but not as bad as before.

Anyway, earlier today I talked to a friend of mine who lives over-seas on MSN Messenger. For weeks everytime I noticed him online he had a display name or personal message that said something about some girl that he obviously had feelings for. Naturally, this caused me to realize that he must have found a new girlfriend. I guessed  my curiosity just suddenly got the best of me – and of course, how could I pass up a chance to learn more about the male species? [^_^]

So I messaged him and after the usual small talk (“how’s school?” etc.) I said something like “So, you seem to have found a new female companion.” He laughed and formed a clever, indefinite way of saying “Yes”. Eventually I ended up giving him a couple tips about this particular topic, in which I consider myself an expert *winks*.

Anyway, so I decided to share some of my expertise with minna-san!!! \[*v*]/ <— Love Guru ♥

AWWW! Sweet!

AWWW! Sweet!

OK, here I go (note: some of these tips aren’t exactly the most important things, but they’re useful… I hope [-_-]).

Be a gentleman at all times!

This one might seem simple and “obvious” but it’s just so important, it must be said! Chivalry might seem lame and old fashion, but I for one believe that it is still one of the best, simplest ways to show your girl that you care about her. It also shows that you are respectful and willing to put her before yourself. I’m not certain about how much this means to most girls, but MK melts when a guy is  like that [♥.♥].

Be honest at all times!

Hmmm, what more can I say about this… Oh! Why? Because she wants to be able to trust you just like you want to be able to trust her. But even if you want to trust someone, it’s still hard to trust someone who has lied to you or broken a promise or anything like that. So don’t give her any reasons not to trust you.

Take responsibility

If something is your fault let it be know that you realize that and will do what you have to to fix it. I personally find it UBER attractive when a guy can admit that he’s wrong and take on the consequences. It’s just… macho. It’s like the saying “Take it like a man!”. Men take the blows when they know they’ve done something to deserve it.

Be thoughtful

It’s the most special feeling when a girl learns that her guy thinks about her often. Let your girl know that she’s important to you and that she’s always on your mind. This can be done my just giving her a simple gift out of the blue or doing her a favor out of the blue, or just doing anything for her without being asked. Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t afford anything grand. It’s the thought that counts. [^.^]

Defend her

How lovely! [*v*]

If someone’s bugging her, tell them to back off. If someone’s dissing her, stand up for her. Be a little protective of her (don’t be a crazy stalker dude, though 0_0!). If the two of you go out on a date, make sure she has a safe way of getting back home. Take her home yourself if you have to. She should always feel safe with you. Never leave her in potentially dangerous situations.

Never ditch her

That doesn’t mean you have to stalk her! Let her have her space, but be attentive. This is yet another way of ensuring her that you care. Of course, that doesn’t mean that you can’t have any time alone or with your guys. It just means that you have to remember that girls can be super sensitive (like MK [;_;]). So don’t act like you don’t want to be around her or are avoiding her (some guys do this to make girls long for them or something – what losers \[`A´]~!). Make sure she knows you enjoy being with her.

Always wear the same cologne

This is something I explained to my friend. I know this makes a difference from my own experience.

When a guy I like always wears the same cologne, it creates something for me to always remember him by. It’s very hard to explain, but it kinda makes me remember him distinctly and like whenever I smell that cologne or one that smells kind of like it, it triggers memories of him and it just makes me smile. I guess it makes a girl feel more secure or something. Plus girls really notice how a guy smells. It’s attractive when a guy smells good. Not too much though!

OK, that seems like about all the advice MK can give. Note: these tips may not work for all girls. Everyone’s different. Just use common sense + the Love Guru’s (me [^_^]) expertise *LOL* and you should be fine.

Guys what do you think of the tips? Would you try chivalry on a girl you like? Girls, did I hit the nail on the head, or did I just smash my thumb with the hammer? (I just made that up *proud of self*) Do y’all have any tips to add?

Also, Ane-san, I’m curious to know what you think about this and what other tips you have!


MK’s Observations

Ohayou gozaimasu! MK desu! How’s it going? *sigh* These days have been very simple empty days for MK. By empty I don’t necessarily mean lazy or not busy days, but… these days have been very… regular.

Kanji for LOVE!3

Kanji for LOVE!<3

Note: Have any of you noticed that the tattoo on Gaara’s (from Naruto) forehead is this^ sign? So he’s got “love” written on his forehead! ❤ I love that! (He’s one of my favorite characters n_n)

Anyway, so today I’m going to tell y’all a little about a pretty… weird interest of mine. OK, I have this interest in male behaviour that seems to have been there for about as long as I can remember.

I always pay keen attention to the way guys think, act and feel about different things. I really think it’s super intriguing how different guys are to girls and, for example, how they get all protective and stuff about girl/women they care about (T_T!!! So beautiful!*_*)

Anyway, so I plan to share some of my researches and discoveries with you all! ^.^ I find them very interesting and cool, maybe you’ll think so too?

OK, so here’s something interesting that I dug up the other day about men and love ♥!

“I can sleep with her, marry her, take care of her, but love – that’s something else,” said Tony, a married man in his late forties. “Guys don’t like to talk about love. They don’t know what to say. Of course guys do love. But they express it differently.”

Despite this fact, most women do not feel happy unless they hear those golden words, I love you. Men need to hear them as well. And yet, as much as men want love, many fight it to the last minute. Love can make men feel vulnerable, childlike, and unable to do what’s expected of them.”

From: The Different Ways Men Say “I Love You”.

OK, so that’s something I found interesting (though I can’t guarantee that you’ll feel the same way x.x)
… but MK must go now!