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Konbanwa, minna-san! MK is feeling a little better now, for whatever reason. I’m still feeling kinda gloomy, but not as bad as before.

Anyway, earlier today I talked to a friend of mine who lives over-seas on MSN Messenger. For weeks everytime I noticed him online he had a display name or personal message that said something about some girl that he obviously had feelings for. Naturally, this caused me to realize that he must have found a new girlfriend. I guessed  my curiosity just suddenly got the best of me – and of course, how could I pass up a chance to learn more about the male species? [^_^]

So I messaged him and after the usual small talk (“how’s school?” etc.) I said something like “So, you seem to have found a new female companion.” He laughed and formed a clever, indefinite way of saying “Yes”. Eventually I ended up giving him a couple tips about this particular topic, in which I consider myself an expert *winks*.

Anyway, so I decided to share some of my expertise with minna-san!!! \[*v*]/ <— Love Guru ♥

AWWW! Sweet!

AWWW! Sweet!

OK, here I go (note: some of these tips aren’t exactly the most important things, but they’re useful… I hope [-_-]).

Be a gentleman at all times!

This one might seem simple and “obvious” but it’s just so important, it must be said! Chivalry might seem lame and old fashion, but I for one believe that it is still one of the best, simplest ways to show your girl that you care about her. It also shows that you are respectful and willing to put her before yourself. I’m not certain about how much this means to most girls, but MK melts when a guy is  like that [♥.♥].

Be honest at all times!

Hmmm, what more can I say about this… Oh! Why? Because she wants to be able to trust you just like you want to be able to trust her. But even if you want to trust someone, it’s still hard to trust someone who has lied to you or broken a promise or anything like that. So don’t give her any reasons not to trust you.

Take responsibility

If something is your fault let it be know that you realize that and will do what you have to to fix it. I personally find it UBER attractive when a guy can admit that he’s wrong and take on the consequences. It’s just… macho. It’s like the saying “Take it like a man!”. Men take the blows when they know they’ve done something to deserve it.

Be thoughtful

It’s the most special feeling when a girl learns that her guy thinks about her often. Let your girl know that she’s important to you and that she’s always on your mind. This can be done my just giving her a simple gift out of the blue or doing her a favor out of the blue, or just doing anything for her without being asked. Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t afford anything grand. It’s the thought that counts. [^.^]

Defend her

How lovely! [*v*]

If someone’s bugging her, tell them to back off. If someone’s dissing her, stand up for her. Be a little protective of her (don’t be a crazy stalker dude, though 0_0!). If the two of you go out on a date, make sure she has a safe way of getting back home. Take her home yourself if you have to. She should always feel safe with you. Never leave her in potentially dangerous situations.

Never ditch her

That doesn’t mean you have to stalk her! Let her have her space, but be attentive. This is yet another way of ensuring her that you care. Of course, that doesn’t mean that you can’t have any time alone or with your guys. It just means that you have to remember that girls can be super sensitive (like MK [;_;]). So don’t act like you don’t want to be around her or are avoiding her (some guys do this to make girls long for them or something – what losers \[`A´]~!). Make sure she knows you enjoy being with her.

Always wear the same cologne

This is something I explained to my friend. I know this makes a difference from my own experience.

When a guy I like always wears the same cologne, it creates something for me to always remember him by. It’s very hard to explain, but it kinda makes me remember him distinctly and like whenever I smell that cologne or one that smells kind of like it, it triggers memories of him and it just makes me smile. I guess it makes a girl feel more secure or something. Plus girls really notice how a guy smells. It’s attractive when a guy smells good. Not too much though!

OK, that seems like about all the advice MK can give. Note: these tips may not work for all girls. Everyone’s different. Just use common sense + the Love Guru’s (me [^_^]) expertise *LOL* and you should be fine.

Guys what do you think of the tips? Would you try chivalry on a girl you like? Girls, did I hit the nail on the head, or did I just smash my thumb with the hammer? (I just made that up *proud of self*) Do y’all have any tips to add?

Also, Ane-san, I’m curious to know what you think about this and what other tips you have!


Comments on: "How to: Tips for being a good boyfriend!" (8)

  1. Eh? Was that ‘Ane-san’ call referring to me? (Laughs) (.___.)


    These are very basic tips however, the most essential criteria needed in a guy. Nothing will be complete without these so good job, Sachi-chan. A guy may be cool, handsome, rich, popular but if he is not a responsible gentleman with the sense to protect his girl, then he is a worthless.

    I agree with you. I like men who can defend their love ones. Though I’m quite possessive so I only want him to defend me and no one else. (Laughs)

    Also, I’m the same as you. I have a keen nose so smell is important. I won’t say more than this because of people come to know about my keen sense of smell, then it’s as good as giving away a very dangerous secret about sheep. (Laughs)

    Sachi-chan, I hope you find the right guy for yourself! Don’t be like sheep, a loner who loss her light years!

  2. Aww! Domo, ane-san. I hope I find the right guy for myself too. *sigh* So many fish in the sea[-_-].
    Wasn’t ane-san going to start looking out for “someone special”? If you keep your eyes opened and have patience, I’m sure you’ll find a great guy who will make use of all of these great tips and more!

  3. Hahahaha listen to you too..!! LOL Well seriously goodluck to you both! Btw ^_^ Sachi-chan what happen to the crush you had? lol oh yeah…!!
    Great tips though really cool to bad i have them already and I guess you forgot a rule too….Be Yourself! Because what sence does it make if the dude dont be himself if he doesn’t then his love would be a lie but thats my opinion ohhh its almost time for me exams!
    Anyway until next time itsssssssssssssssss


  4. … *whistles* What crush?[.__.] *blush* LOL

    That’s true, Be yourself, always. Never try to change who you are for someone else. I should add that one too.

    … huh? His love would be a lie??? I disagree, dude. His actions would be a like and what he wants her to think he is, that would be a lie. But that doesn’t mean his love is a lie and doesn’t exist.

    But of course, that’s just my opinion…
    What do you think of the cologne advice? Do you wear the same cologne all the time?

  5. yeah I do its strange it seems like one is always attracted to smell the same one and still likes it but from me when she thinks she has me on strike 3 i come back and hit a granslam! lol

  6. … Ok? (Yoshi-kun speaks gibberish?)

  7. pennylau said:

    good tips! I’m going to refer this page to my bf now

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